Thursday, February 24, 2011

Understanding Being Empathic: What is Empathy

One of the girls just shared this article at my Empath Class at the Mists and I had to share it here as I know a lot of you who follow this blog are empaths.  :)) Love and blessings


"Understanding Being Empathic: What is Empathy? 
by Christel Broederlow 

Empathy is the ability to read and understand people and be in-tune with or resonate with others, voluntarily or involuntarily of one's empath capacity. Empaths have the ability to scan another's psyche for thoughts and feelings or for past, present, and future life occurrences. Many empaths are unaware of how this actually works, and have long accepted that they were ìsensitiveî to others. 

Empathy is a feeling of another's true emotions to a point where an empath can relate to that person by sensing true feelings that run deeper than those portrayed on the surface. People commonly put on a show of expression. This is a learned trait of hiding authentic expression in an increasingly demanding society. An empath can sense the truth behind the cover and will act compassionately to help that person express him/herself, thus making them feel at ease and not so desperately alone. 

Empaths experience empathy towards family, children, friends, close associates, complete strangers, pets, plants and inanimate objects. Empathy is not held by time or space. Thus, an empath can feel the emotions of people and things at a distance. Some are empathic towards animals (ie: The Horse Whisperer), to nature, to the planetary system, to mechanical devices or to buildings etc. Others will have a combination of the above. 

Empaths are highly sensitive. This is the term commonly used in describing one's abilities (sensitivity) to another's emotions and feelings. Empaths have a deep sense of knowing that accompanies empathy and are often compassionate, considerate, and understanding of others. 

There are also varying levels of strength in empaths which may be related to the individualís awareness of self, understanding of the powers of empathy, and/or the acceptance or non-acceptance of empathy by those associated with them, including family and peers. Generally, those who are empathic grow up with these tendencies and do not learn about them until later in life. 

Empathy is genetic, inherent in our DNA, and passed from generation to generation. It is studied both by traditional science and alternative healing practitioners. Empathy has both biological/genetic and spiritual aspects. Empaths often possess the ability to sense others on many different levels. From their position in observing what another is saying, feeling and thinking, they come to understand another. They can become very proficient at reading another personís body language and/or study intently the eye movements. While this in itself is not empathy, it is a side-shoot that comes from being observant of others. In a sense, empaths have a complete communication package. While there is much we don't yet understand about how empathy works, we do have some information. Everything has an energetic vibration or frequency and an empath is able to sense these vibrations and recognize even the subtlest changes undetectable to the naked eye or the five senses. 

Words of expression hold an energetic pattern that originates from the speaker. They have a specific meaning particular to the speaker. Behind that expression is a power or force-field, better known as energy. 

For example, hate often brings about an intense feeling that immediately accompanies the word. The word hate becomes strengthened with the speaker's feeling. It is that person's feelings (energy) that are picked up by empaths, whether the words are spoken, thought or just felt without verbal or bodily expression. 

Who Is An Empath? Empaths are often poets in motion. They are the born writers, singers, and artists with a high degree of creativity and imagination. They are known for many talents as their interests are varied, broad and continual, loving, loyal and humorous. They often have interests in many cultures and view them with a broad-minded perspective. They are mother, father, child, friend, nurse, caregiver, teacher, doctor, sales people... to psychic, clairvoyant, healer, etc. (That is not to say that any of these categories are all empaths.) 

The list is extensive and really unimportant. It is more important to notice that empaths are everywhere--in every culture and throughout the world. Empaths are often very affectionate in personality and expression, great listeners and counselors (and not just in the professional area). They will find themselves helping others and often putting their own needs aside to do so. In the same breath, they can be much the opposite. They may be quiet, withdrawn from the outside world, loners, depressed, neurotic, lifeís daydreamers, or even narcissistic. They are most often passionate towards nature and respect its bountiful beauty. One will often find empaths enjoying the outdoors, beaches, walking, etc. 

Empaths may find themselves continually drawn to nature as a form of release. It is the opportune place to recapture their senses and gain a sense of peace in the hectic lives they may live. The time to get away from it all and unwind with nature becomes essential to the empath. Animals are often dear to the heart of empaths, not as a power object, but as a natural love. It is not uncommon for empaths to have more than one pet in their homes. 

From the healing.about.com website"

5 comments:

  1. i would like to thank you for posting this as it has really helped me as a 15 year old empath still getting to grips with what i am. i came across this when a friend of mine told me about the website when researching my situation. this has been a lot of help, thankyou

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  2. I thank you for amazing posts,
    Im super sensitieve!I feel, I see, I know ...and so on...:)
    And I love myself....

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  3. I was having trouble getting to sleep tonight, feeling rather blue lately... so I got out of bed, turned on my computer and googled YULE. I stumbled upon your websight and started reading about a few spells and such. I came across the article; Are you an Empath, unaware of the meaning, I decided to read. I cried as I read the entire article. I have felt so lost and alone most of my life...chalking it up to depression, anxiety or just plain CRAZY!! I have always known I was sensitive, intuitive, emotional and I could feel what others feel, but I ignored it.I have wasted so much time trying to push it back because I looked at it as a curse and not a gift. I have been pagan/wiccan for most of my adult life (25+ years)but this past year has been very difficult. I was drawn to your websight(Empathic)? becasue I have been comptemplating suicide the past few months. I needed this so much, it has literally saved my life. I now understand so much of what drives me to do the things I do? Thank you soo much, I look forward to exploring my gift and helping others. Love and Blessings

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  4. beautiful article ~ thank you for such meaningful insight as to who I am ~
    Blessed be!

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  5. My boyfriend is a empathy.....so this really helped me. Ty, and merry ye part

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